Okay, so we have established that most people come to dance class "to see and be seen" by the opposite sex. So, as every woman knows, the next logical thought is..."What should I wear?"
First of all, as much as it pains me to say this, a woman should wear somewhat sensible, comfortable shoes....and if the shoes have steel toes...all the better (only partially kidding here - Mr. Two-Left Feet can inflict some pain). Spiked heels look great but after 1 1/2 hour of dancing, one's tootsies can be mighty tender. What if some tall, dark and handsome guy asks you to go out for a drink after class and you have to decline because your feet hurt!
I once had a dance partner tell me all women should be able to wear sexy heels because a person dances on the ball of the foot, not the heel. He's just plain wrong...put him in some heels and see if he could walk - let alone dance! Like the saying goes, "If you haven't walked (danced) a mile in her shoes, keep your opinions to yourself!" Needless to say, this dance partner never was more than just a dance partner.
Jeans, slacks or a skirt are all fine. The trick is to look attractive without looking like a middle-aged hooker. Try not to look like your mother or your 3rd grade teacher.
Should you wear something low-cut? That's a personal decision....do you want the guy to look at your face or your boobs? BTW, guys tell me the line-of-sight dilemma is quite vexing, so don't be too harsh on the poor fellow; he is facing quite a quandary here. I say if the woman wears something low-cut, she probably wants to show off her assets. She might have paid good money for those assets and wants to know if it was money well spent.
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